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Sun 20 Jun, 2021 11:22 am
Hello all,
Really hope this is in the right area of the group, please tell me and move if not.
New on here and hoping to get some words of wisdom!
I am a straight (ha ha), false nails and make up girly girl, 26 year old not in relationship at moment, having the occasional one night stand with a guy if the fancy takes and generally enjoying life.
A new person has started at work a few months ago and really messed with me.
They are pretty, sexy ,intelligent, shy, so many things, and they identify as "non binary bi sexual" (yes, we have had some fairly deep conversations)
They have a boyfriend who I have met, who is a super nice, if a little "wet" kind of guy .
We went out for an after work drink and bite to eat last week where they confided so much in me not much personal was left to ask them!
BIG problem now, I have become obsessed with them. I think about them waaay too much, go out of my way to bump into them at work, this is an unexpected new thing for me. In short I want to hold them, cuddle them, dammit I want to take them to bed and make love to them!
They look like a pretty boy, short spiky hair, slim, baggy clothes, full of attitude but so unsure.
Would someone like that really be attracted to a girl like me? Do they just want a friend? Its like being 13 again!
I am so sexualy attracted to them but wouldnt know what to do if anything happened.
So cofused.
@lorna b,
Your coworker is already in a relationship. You'll need to direct your energies elsewhere.
@jespah,
You are telling me what I dont want to hear, yet I know you are right.
Thank you.
But.....oh flip.
@lorna b,
Be a good friend. Friendship is an incredibly underrated relationship when you're young. When you're older, it's pretty much everything.
There will be other folks to light your candle.
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