I thought you have only been married for the last 12 years. So is it 20 or 12?
Yeah previously when he was going to have an affair (Dec 2019)
I'm a 50 year old married male. Been married for almost 10 years.
So it actually it would be less than 12 years. Not 20.
I think there are just too many inconsistencies to believe much here. You don't make a mistake of over 8 years of marriage. Unless you are just not being clear again on what you trying to get across.