If a woman is in her mid twenties and has not found a guy that she likes, is it her fault?

I'd say no. I think a lot of people would say the biggest dating mistake they made when they were young was spending time on people they didn't particularly like or were attracted to.

Maybe it's time to set aside the dating apps for a while and maybe try a different tactic. Take aim at whatever subset of fandom (books, arts and crafts, hobbies, etc...) in which you find yourself most mirrored in.

Maybe when things are safer to meet IRL, you can meet more compatible blokes with built-in commonalities.


But generally speaking, you just might have defined part of the human condition in that sentiment. Besides, no one here knows you enough to know what habits or part of your personality may be a hindrance or help in your romantic life. That part of the question is literally unanswerable (sans context).

Just be patient, help is shortly on the way. There is a member on this forum who is an expert on women and what they should do in order to attract and keep a guy. When he notices your thread he will hustle over and give you his best advice.

I'm not being flip, he is a self-taught expert on all things women need to know.

lol @ GB

thank you Mame, I try!!!

just noticed your signature line - LOL - forgot all about old oralboy's pleasantries

I think that conversation earned him an unscheduled (by him) vacation.

lol

Your personal attacks and childish name-calling are evidence that you have nothing intelligent to say.

Mame didn't call you any names, she simply said she forgot about the way you interact with other posters.

You're lying again. Both you and she regularly engage in name-calling because of your shared inability to say anything intelligent.

Well that just stings.

I said the 'way you interact' and she said she had forgotten about 'your pleasantries' . That neither a lie or name calling.

None of that excuses your name-calling.

There was no name calling, I think you're confused.

You're lying again. Both you and Mame engage in childish name-calling.

Let me guess, you think you've been even-handed with other members? I suspect you're on the verge of a hissy-fit. I dare you to point out anywhere on my posts where Mame has lied or called you a name.

I never thought about it before, but that sounds about right.



You're not really fit to be drawing conclusions on your own.



Well duh. Mame's name-calling is found in Mame's posts. Why would I go looking for her name-calling in your posts?

All I'm asking is that you do what YOU demand others to do, point out a mistake, name calling, contradict false facts. You're not willing to do that, I see, interesting. I think you are just tap dancing.