The story about how science landed on this definition of a meter is an interesting one.
In Isaac Newton's time, a meter was defined as "1 millionth of the distance between the equator and the north pole". They couldn't measure this that accurately... but then again they didn't have very accurate clocks either at that time. If one person's meter was a little different than someone else's meter, it could be worked out. I don't... but I imagine that people used "reference meters".
As science advanced and clocks got better and measurements in general were more accurate, the definition of the meter based on the Earth no longer worked (for one thing, the changes by a slight amount depending on where and when you take the measurement). So they invented the "reference meter" in the late 1880s. This was an actual bar of metal. From time to time, they would cut a bar that was the exact same length, and these copies were copied and you got a bunch of "meters" that were all pretty much the same size.
At this time scientists were making more and more accurate measurements about the speed of light. In 1867 the value for the speed of light was 299,910 plus or minus 50 meters.
By 1972 we got down to a value of 299,792.4574 plus of minus 1/1000 of a meter. This was still measured using the
reference meter bar, but it became ridiculous. It is very slight, but any metal expands and contracts based on tiny changes in temperature pressure... this level of accuracy for the speed of light is
greater than the accuracy of the metal reference bar.
It was in 1983 that scientists decided to fix the speed of light. Any new measurements would make the meter more accurate.
Before, we had a reference meter which we used to calculate the speed of light. Now we have a reference speed of light which we use the calculate the length of a meter. Either way, the value can be established by experiment.
Once you understand this change in 1983, it makes perfect sense.
(I don't know if this explanation is better than mine).
https://math.ucr.edu/home/baez/physics/Relativity/SpeedOfLight/measure_c.html#:~:text=Since%201983%20the%20metre%20has,light%20exactly%20299%2C792.458%20km%2Fs.