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Fri 13 Nov, 2020 01:18 am
she is my first lesbian gf dating for 1 year now, before me, she had alots gf and she always talks about the one she dated for few months , how much she liked, loved her, how beautiful she is that she had never seen such a beauty in her entire life. she seems sad and watery in her eyes whenever she talks about her, and she likes keeping in touch with all of her exs. even though she said she does not have feeling for them anymore. they are just another person for her.
1/ I am wondering that how lesbian loves work ? as long as lesbian love someone they will just keep them deep in their hearts and never forget ???
I never thought I would date her and there is possibility between me and her, but something happened, hooked up anyway ! I do not think we are suitable to each other and I think I am also just another companion to her to kill her loneliness. Although she said she likes me and wants to be with me, I do not know why I cant trust her at all. I already brought up the breakups 3 times, but she never accepts it.
2/ Do you think she still loves that girl and never forget ?
3/ I think I want to go separate way with her, how should i do it so that she can just accept ?
Thanks all for your input.
Gi
@gigi14691,
Of course lesbian love doesn't work that way. It's individual, just like every other form of love.
You can break up whether or not the other person accepts it. Neither party has ultimate veto power over a breakup. You don't say what not accepting the breakup means. Are you being stalked or physically threatened? Then get your friends and family to help you, and the cops if you're in serious physical danger.
No one can truly answer your questions about her except for her. Your instincts may be right. Or you may be overly jealous, looking for a fight where there is none. No way to know without more information.
@jespah,
Thanks for your reply and valuable input.
she just cried and begged not to break up whenever I brought up.
You are right, I should just trust my instinct , the signals she gave out about her feeling to her exs were never positive to me, she just cant be with them because they broke up with her. I always believe they will get back together if her exs especially that girl wants. I am just another companion in convenience, I will just live my life without letting her interfering my decision and emotion again !
God .. I thought lesbian relationship would be more simple than with the guy. this relationship shows I am wrong !
Gi
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