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Reply Fri 11 Sep, 2020 05:42 am
So my ex boyfriend had a new girlfirend but never metioned it to me. We had a very long relationship. He was always keeping in touch with me after the break up and sending me messages, even if i still had feelings for him i never sent him anything first. Its been long since we broke up and it was my choice. But as we kept in contact , i still harbored feelings for him and started to believe that at some point we can be together again (i didnt move to next relationship even if its been so long). The reason that i broke up with him was that the relationship really was going bad at that point and we surely needed a break (i dont want to analyze). I was always asking him what he is doing when he was contacting me and he was always pretending that he had no life and only work and stay home. Until i asked directly one day and out of nowhere he said that yes, he has a new relationship. Ofcourse i was angry and told him this is the end of our communication and i dont want him to bother me anymore. I called him liar and he still insisted that he never lied to me (how can u have a new relationship when u pretend that u are home all day or at work) He asked me to not block him yet and asked me to wait for him to come (we live in different places now) so we can talk and so he can say the things he want about this. Now i dont know what to do. I want to disappear after what happened , especially cos i feel like i was mocked. But on the other hand i want to make a last talk with him but i dont even know exactly when he can come (it can be months). I really need to let go finally and all this waiting will hold me back. I want to see different opinions about why he lied to me and hide such an important thing and if it is better to wait and talk with him or end it now.
 
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Reply Fri 11 Sep, 2020 06:22 am
@fornever,
You seem like a horrible friend. You call him names, won't be supportive in his new relationship or even care about him enough to let him go his separate way.

He didn't lie to you - it's NONE of your business who he sees. Why would you expect him to tell you, he obviously knows who you are to react as badly as you did.

Grow up.
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Reply Fri 11 Sep, 2020 06:34 am
@neptuneblue,
Friend ? Who said that i was his friend? I never wanted to be friends with him. And as long as I asked , he should be honest about his life , shoudnt he ?? After all i dont know if u read my post , but i said i never bothered him first. I wanted to make a distance but he was always the one to show interest. Ofcourse he lied to me cos he was pretending that nothing had changed. He could say that he moved on with his life. He could make clear if i am just a friend to him. But he didnt. Am i the wrong one here? Even if he knew how i would react , he should have told me this. He wanted to keep me in his life with his own terms , without being honest about his life.
neptuneblue
 
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Reply Fri 11 Sep, 2020 06:38 am
@fornever,
Oh, it's the "I don't want him but you can't have him either" game.

Quit lying to him about being friends, quit lying to him about how much honesty means to you because it obviously does not.

Yes, you're clearly in the wrong.
fornever
 
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Reply Fri 11 Sep, 2020 06:42 am
@neptuneblue,
I already said that we arent friends. And i didnt say i dont want him. I wanted him all the way long and if he had asked me i would have told him. You make ur own conclusions here so better stop replying Smile
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Reply Fri 11 Sep, 2020 06:46 am
@fornever,
Or... What? You asked for differing opinions, you asked if you were wrong and when you get an answer, you continue to act poorly.

fornever
 
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Reply Fri 11 Sep, 2020 06:48 am
@neptuneblue,
You can say your opinion , but yours answers look like you are answering on a different post. They make zero sense.
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fornever
 
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Reply Fri 11 Sep, 2020 06:56 am
@neptuneblue,
(You seem like a horrible friend.)

I am not his friend. Yes maybe i made him believe that we are. It was a mistake and i made it clear to him.

(won't be supportive in his new relationship)

ofcourse not cos i dont need to be , i am not his friend and never will be. He is my ex that i still have feelings for , this is idiotic.

(to let him go his separate way.)

if u read the post ( that i think you did not) i told him that we must cut any communication now , i never said i wont let him go his own way , he was the one that asked me to talk in person

(He didn't lie to you)

yes he did , if i was in a new relationship i would have mentioned that to him. he kept saying he does nothing so i wont ask anything.

(it's NONE of your business who he sees)

yes ITS NOT as long as i am not a part in his life , because i am not his friend i am HIS EX and i never tried to keep in contact , he did.

(he obviously knows who you are to react as badly as you
did.)

and so what? so he knew i would just stop talking to him so he never mentioned it. he wanted me to keep talking to him even if HE KNEW that i would never do it if i knew he had a new girlfriend.

I HOPE U DONT HAVE READING PROBLEMS COS MY ANSWERS ARE CLEAR.

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