@mark noble,
One would have to admit that I am even less interested in your alleged 'question' than your previous respondents. However, I'll offer a little free advice which may be helpful to you; if that is this post is not TLDR for you.
Which perceived reality? Of which style or type wisdom would that be?
The question you have posed is so utterly lacking in definition and/or parameters, that no rational nor irrational answer is directly nor indirectly possible. As in; who can even hazard a guess what you are mumbling on about.
Ergo.
What is it that you think that you mean?
Tell people in precise detail, in words of one syllable and you might get further. Though I suspect you are a great deal more interested in what you think, than anyone else.
Wearing one of my many hats in life, I have and still do deal with many people who are professionally taciturn to the point of being almost unfathomable as to their requirements and/or thoughts on any matter. This means in 'lay man' terms, people who act all
dark and mysterious. Now some of them are indeed all that and more. In truth this post is more words than I utter in the average month to people outside of my wife.
However as I explained to a gent just the other week ...
"There is a marked difference between intelligently keeping one's views to oneself until it is absolutely necessary to give something out ... and those who plainly having nothing useful or intelligent to say". He definitely came into the second group
So my advice is, if you wish someone to answer you in any manner other than with 'barely cloaked hostility', I'd really suggest you learn to communicate with greater clarity and cease trying to appear to be 'clever'. It is tiresome.