@Sturgis,
Sturgis wrote:
Quote:When the personal attacks start,the discussion stops.
Then why are you so often found in these threads attacking. Is it perhaps your discomfort with open discussion?
I am very careful not to do the Either/Or thing. If I disagree with you on one issue, I am happy to agree with you on another. And if you tell me what you believe, I accept that you understand your own beliefs better than I do.
I respect people who can say;
I agree with the left on these issues, and I think that the right makes valid points on these issues. Most people line up into ideological left and right with no room for substantial disagreement. I suppose this is fine.
What isn't fine is that when people try to break out of the ideological bubble, even to suggest that the other side might have a valid point...
they take fire from both sides.
How many times has a conversation like this played out...
Me: I believe that women should be protected from harassment in the workplace
Them: No you don't, you hate women.
Me: I am pretty sure I know what I believe...
Them: No. You hate women. And you are a liar.
It is silly when one one person thinks they can dictate what another person believes. But if you put people into these ideological bubbles without allowing for the possibility that people might have a mixture of beliefs... then this type of mind reading is a natural result.