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Awol69
 
Reply Tue 21 Apr, 2020 06:14 pm
I moved in with my girlfriend after dating for 6 months,sex was great but she said I was too big for anal ,I'm about 6 in. Long but pretty thick. After living with her for 5 or 6 months I caught her cheating ,because her anus was reamed pretty good and was bleeding. She confessed that she was having sex with two separate men anally. The reason why she wouldn't let me try is that I would know did she was already having butt sex. Both of the other guys are substantially bigger than me 7 and 8 in and thicker. I made her call it off with both of them. Now I figured she would except me but it seems to have backfired ,she doesn't seem to or want to enjoy me,I seems like she is punishing me for making her give them up. Is she addicted to big dick? Will she ever accept and enjoy me or is it a lost cause?
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Tue 21 Apr, 2020 06:36 pm
@Awol69,
yeah. anal sex. whatever.

why did you move in together? anal sex? any other reason?
Awol69
 
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Reply Tue 21 Apr, 2020 06:44 pm
@ehBeth,
Yeah, like her alot,left my wife for her, anal wasn't a big deal,never had it before now .
ehBeth
 
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Reply Tue 21 Apr, 2020 07:03 pm
@Awol69,
If you want to be with her, focus on what's working for both of us.

Talk to her. About anal, about sex generally, about why you're together, about what turns her on, about what turns you on. All that good stuff. It's cliche to say, but a lot of good sex starts in the brain, so you can figure a lot out by talking.

and yeah, anal sex. it can be a good part of a couple's sexual menu but if that's all it's about - boring <shrug> gotta have variety on the menu to keep things going
Awol69
 
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Reply Tue 21 Apr, 2020 07:27 pm
@ehBeth,
She said she just wants to put it all behind us, but she's still lying to me about them. I can deal with the cheat but if you can't be honest with me how can I ever trust her again. I feel like I don't think she would ever cheat with them again but that's not saying I don't think she would cheat again. When we met she was 21 and I was 41 I don't think she understands how the cheating and lying can affect someone. I drive an 18-wheeler and she rides with me so I know she doesn't cheat most of the time I just recently came off the road so we're back in town. I told her one more time and I'm gone I think she believes me I'm just waiting to see what she does
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Tue 21 Apr, 2020 07:35 pm
@Awol69,
Awol69 wrote:

I moved in with my girlfriend after dating for 6 months,sex was great but she said I was too big for anal ,I'm about 6 in. Long but pretty thick. After living with her for 5 or 6 months I caught her cheating ,because her anus was reamed pretty good and was bleeding. She confessed that she was having sex with two separate men anally. The reason why she wouldn't let me try is that I would know did she was already having butt sex. Both of the other guys are substantially bigger than me 7 and 8 in and thicker. I made her call it off with both of them. Now I figured she would except me but it seems to have backfired ,she doesn't seem to or want to enjoy me,I seems like she is punishing me for making her give them up. Is she addicted to big dick? Will she ever accept and enjoy me or is it a lost cause?



Surely you can do better.
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Tue 21 Apr, 2020 07:40 pm
@Awol69,
You're kind of in different places in life eh. But yeah, I'm with you. Lying is much worse than cheating. Sexual fidelity isn't all that valuable to me, but honesty - that's something that matters to me.

At 21, she may not get that. May still think that her sexual fidelity is what you value over honesty and a relationship.

I think when we're young, we all think that everyone wants to have sex with us and that they value that over anything else we might have to offer them.
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Linkat
 
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Reply Wed 22 Apr, 2020 03:02 pm
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he said she just wants to put it all behind us


Did no one else catch this? Ha ha.
bobsal u1553115
 
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Reply Mon 27 Apr, 2020 01:01 pm
@Awol69,
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She said she just wants to put it all behind us


Obviously enough, she doesn't. That's why you're writing this drek. Have you considered 'Charmin' her?

Must be tough finding things to do what with school being canceled and all.
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bobsal u1553115
 
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Reply Mon 27 Apr, 2020 01:02 pm
@Linkat,
Yeah, I did, today.
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