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Tue 4 Feb, 2020 01:44 pm
Hey girls! I really want an opinion on this, from someone who doesn't know me. I met this girl on my senior year of highschool. We had a class together, I thought she was cute, but we never talked, i think we only had one interaction once during a class, I was saying some joke to the teacher and she laughed and said something about what I was saying but I didn't even answer, I just laughed too. This was back in 2014. Then we became facebook friends, years later I followed her on instagram and she followed me back. I don't see her very often but sometimes at parties and stuff, I see her, since we live in the same town.
She always likes my facebook and instagram pics, since the beginning. The first texts we sent to each other was just wishing happy birthday. Then one night we were at the same party , with different groups of friends, but we were standing kinda close to each other and she was looking at me a lot. Then she left the party about 1 hour before me. When I left and got home, I checked instagram and she had liked one of my pictures that I posted A WEEK AGO. So , drunk me thought it would be a good idea to send her a message. I said something like "I was just thinking about going to buy you a drink but then you left". And she said "well, oportunity lost". I thought that was kinda bitchy but ok, i really wanted to try to turn this around and said something else but she just continued being cold. And we've been like this on and off, sometimes I text her something, she always answers but often giving the cold shoulder. So I should think that she just isn't interested in me, right? But if she wasn't , why would she keep liking every picture I post, sometimes the old ones, always watches my instagram stories, etc? I know this seems kind of childish, but you feel me, right? If she didn't want to give me hopes and really didn't want to have nothing to do with me, why would she do those things that she knows that will make me think she's slightly interested and text her again?
What do you think? I really want to get to know her better and I really think we would get along well. I don't know what to do but I have a feeling that I can turn this around because I feel like she has some kind of interest in me...
Someone help me? xD
@Cpb24,
1) Social media likes have very little meaning.
2) When in doubt, see #1.
In the meantime, man up and ask her out. And then you'll know. Trying to read the tea leaves isn't getting you anywhere.
@Cpb24,
Quote:And she said "well, oportunity lost".
Can you take a bigger hint than this? She wasn't being "bitchy" she was letting you know you missed an opportunity with her. How much clearer can that be?
Quote:I know this seems kind of childish, but you feel me, right?
Yes it is childish - if you were a senior in high school in 2014 - it is now 5 years later so you are what about 23 years old? Old enough to simply ask a young woman out that you are interested in rather than just play games wondering. Man up and ask her out if you are interested. You will soon know by her answer if she is interested or not.
From what you are writing you sound like you are still a teenager in high school rather than a young man.
Don't waste your time wondering - ask the woman.
@jespah,
jespah wrote:
1) Social media likes have very little meaning.
2) When in doubt, see #1.
In the meantime, man up and ask her out. And then you'll know. Trying to read the tea leaves isn't getting you anywhere.
Oh my gosh - I did not see this until after I posted - you said it pretty much the same way I did!
Hey guy - that has to be the right answer and the right thought!
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