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Tue 21 Jan, 2020 07:38 pm
We are seeing for a while. Last night he said that if he doesn't love me (he corrected himself and use other word instead of love) I wouldn' tolerate you. Did he said by accident or he really feels that way ?
@Gjkkff,
There is no way for me to know. I don't know anything about him or about your relationship.
Can you ask him?
@Gjkkff,
Have you tried to get a relationship reading done ?
@Gjkkff,
If you've been seeing each other for a while, then you should be able to have these sorts of conversations.
@Gjkkff,
Gjkkff wrote:
Did he said by accident or he really feels that way ?
Yes. He told me yesterday afternoon when I was walking from the train to my home.
((To clarify... is your significant other a feral cat... living in Brooklyn? That's who I talked to yesterday afternoon... then again I could have projected my feelings about your relationship and the conversation could have been altogther imagined. I talk to that cat again today and hopefully verify or disprove my conversation ever properly happened))
G-
Shouldn’t you be more concerned that he’s saying that he has difficulty tolerating you?
He could have been teasing you - or was serious that its a good thing he feels like he does about you (cares for, likes, loves, whatever) because you take a lot of energy to have a relationship with.