@dilemmawithboyfriend,
So what?
He dismisses your concerns about your daughter and doesn't give any credence to her knowing her own body, all in favor of him getting his own way.
Who cares if he's upset? Here's a big spoiler alert about life: whining and pouting should never be indulged. All that does is encourage more of it. And here's another true life spoiler alert: you don't have to fix his feelings and reactions. They are his to deal with. He's a big boy and he's been handling himself for decades before you came into the picture. He will handle himself just fine once you aren't.
Just like the last one, you will fart around for a few years while everyone tells you to run in the opposite direction of this jerk. You will make endless accounts and topics with slight variations on this all too transparent theme. You will make excuses for his bad behavior and contort yourself ten ways till Sunday in an effort to justify his bullshit and your belief in it.
Here's a piece of advice.
Stop making every relationship turn serious until some time and mileage has gone into one. As in a good year. And don't just mark the days on your calendar, waiting until the magical 365 have passed. Spend that time figuring out what a guy is like and whether that fits into
your life, not how you can bend yourself into a pretzel to please him.
I think you'll find your neverending boyfriend issues will start to disappear.