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Too bad it couldn’t end better

 
 
Noclass
 
Reply Tue 24 Sep, 2019 07:21 pm
Broke up with boyfriend of 7 years. I stayed calm and just told him I couldn’t see a future because he won’t change and I can’t expect him to. He has some challenges being straightforward about certain things. I wished him the best.

He asked if I met someone and I said no which is true. He then started saying he will meet someone else and that person will be inclusive as opposed to me which is the opposite. I have no friends according to him but he has a lot of really long time friends however he grew up in this area and I did it. And the fact is I do have a few friends but not many since I work full-time and raise to family. I kept the conversation low-key as best as possible but he was obviously upset which I understand.

He said he needs to tell his family and friends and he’s concerned but since I don’t have any friends I just need to tell my 2 sisters.

He further said it will just be me and my two kids and I won’t have anyone else in my life and furthermore I’ll never find another man to love me as much nor will I find a man at my age to be willing to undertake the baggage I have according to him which I assume means my son who has mild autism and I don’t know what else he was referring to. I am financially independent and I’m very social and generous.
Finally he said the least I could have done is have sex with him before I broke up.
I suppose it never ends well.
 
maxdancona
 
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Reply Tue 24 Sep, 2019 07:27 pm
@Noclass,
That doesn't sound too bad.
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jespah
 
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Reply Tue 24 Sep, 2019 07:39 pm
@Noclass,
He gave you a huge gift.

By essentially sowing the ground with salt, he's told you in no uncertain terms that there's no reason to second-guess your decision.
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glitterbag
 
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Reply Tue 24 Sep, 2019 08:26 pm
@Noclass,
He further said it will just be me and my two kids and I won’t have anyone else in my life and furthermore I’ll never find another man to love me as much nor will I find a man at my age to be willing to undertake the baggage I have according to him which I assume means my son who has mild autism and I don’t know what else he was referring to.

(They always say that.....you lucked out, count your blessings)
Linkat
 
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Reply Wed 25 Sep, 2019 07:27 am
@glitterbag,
glitterbag wrote:

He further said it will just be me and my two kids and I won’t have anyone else in my life and furthermore I’ll never find another man to love me as much nor will I find a man at my age to be willing to undertake the baggage I have according to him which I assume means my son who has mild autism and I don’t know what else he was referring to.

(They always say that.....you lucked out, count your blessings)


Agreed and if he called your children baggage no matter their situations - he is not some one that should be saying what he is - you are well done being without him.

In a situation like this - you get to see someone's true colors.

Also - do not be surprised if he tells his multiple friends and family that he broke up with you... I know the type. His ego is too big that you would break up with him.

Just let it go and be happy that you are better off without his baggage (the chip on his shoulder) - which in my opinion is much greater than your lovely children

Children are not baggage - they are just more to love and to love you.
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