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Mon 26 Aug, 2019 10:17 pm
So I have a friend lets call him John. We have been friends a little over a year and is one of my best friends. But for a while(monthes) he has been unfriending me and friending me again on games such as Minecraft. He also calls me bad at things like gaming or basketball. At first it was ok but its just been happening for so long repeatedly that i was starting to feel sad and angry when these jokes happened. In person they feel ok but online is different. I can't tell whether hes serious or joking. And recently actually we got into a "fight" over this. He called me bad again and I said stop. And he said the reason why is clout. I responded so you want power and influence in video games? Eventually he said its a joke and that i can't take a joke and that he unfriends everyone else as a joke and I'm the only person he knows can't take a joke. He continues to say "yeah jokes are no laughing matter" and goes of that for a while and eventually he logs off. I'm starting to get really confused, sad, and mad at him but its mainly at myself. I really don't know who is in the wrong here because everything else is fine with him its just that one thing pretty much. And none of my other friends make these jokes. I just don't know what to do at this point.
@EmiKalee,
If I knew a woman who made such jokes to me, she wouldn't be a friend for long. Maybe it's your fault for, well, I don't know. Maybe for not treating his insults as jokes?
@EmiKalee,
My Grandfather used to say that is only a joke if both people laugh. Maybe John is just a dick.
@EmiKalee,
Why hang around this jackass?