Why would a man propose if unfaithful?

He thinks he deserves attention from more than one woman. He wants to have his cake, and your cake, and a lot of other cakes because he needs a lot of attention.

Who cares why? Run, don't walk, from this train wreck

Some people are sociopaths. Some people are delusional and arrogant and heartless. Some people are worthless pieces of selfish ****.

This surprises you HOW, exactly? This, and variations of this, sounds rather normal to me. It is the rare one who doesn't behave in this manner from what I've observed....

truth is... he prob gets a high feeling from whatever that married woman gives him. either boost his low self-esteem or mebbe she's a risky choice, so he proposes to a girl who is a safe bet, and he can play with the risky bet(married woman).

The fact is, the married woman is a fantasy he has in his head. He isn't just sexually involved with her, he's emotionally invested in her too. It isn't love, but he prob thinks it is. Prob same for the woman; not willing to leave the safety of her marriage, but wanting affirmation of some kind and getting it from him.

So it may not make much sense to you, but for him, it allows whatever part of him that she fulfills, that somehow the woman he proposed to isn't fulfilling.


It can be all sorts of reasons. superficial or deep. but in the end, almost all affairs are based on fantasy and not reality.

always someone falls for the other more; or reality comes crashing into their idyllic fantasy.