Can I call her or not?
Only if you want to possibly catch him in a lie and possibly destroy his marriage.
Is that what you really want?
If you do catch him in a lie and destroy his marriage, do you think he is going to want to be with you?
He is a married man who claims he is divorcing his wife.
He just might be telling you the truth.
He just might be lying to you.
What do you think?