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Sun 11 Aug, 2019 09:17 pm
Me and my bf relationship for 10months ago.He loves me a lot.But he always secret and hiding me.He so addict for sex only.He always approach me sex only.Other things he didnt discuss with me.Spend money also he wants take from me.I want to rely on him .But he always rely on me and whatever we spent he asked me to pay it.I really fed up him already.Firstly he approach me like single.Now I knew he married already.One day I opened his ph and check his message .I knew his wife ph no and address.He said he separated with his wife .But stayed same house .Only sleep with different room.Can I go his house and discuss with his wife or not.?
@cherry39,
Good Lord, No. You're messing with a married man. That's bad enough without destroying a marriage.
He said he will divorce his wife .When I angry on him he tell me truth .Otherwise he always lie and cheated me.I go his house and discuss with his wife or not.So that I can know truth story
@cherry39,
You really think he is going to divorce his wife? Please don't hold your breath.
If you've made up your mind, why did you ask?
You know the truth already.
I sent his wife ph no just says hi.But she block me.How to start conversation with his wife on through viber.
Can I continue with him relationship or not? I knew he not love his wife.He loves me alot. But cant divorce immediately yet.Need to take procure to go court.Can I wait him give time what he said to me or not?
You said that he is honest with you only when you are angry. Do you plan to be angry with him all of the time to make sure that he is honest all of the time?
And you said it yourself--he hides you and uses you for money and sex. As I said, you know the truth already.
Wait for him to divorce his wife. If he really cares for you, he will do this.
He hides and use for money means when we go trip he asked me to share expenses.He doesnt want to be rely on him.My thinking means I want him to spend all expenses when we went for trip. Bad things when I angry him he tell me truth.But every time he lies and hide me a lot. I knew his ph password he changed it again.He said give me time to divorce his wife.I knew he doesnt love his wife now.I read message whatever he chat with his wife.He loves me a lot.Can I wait him and give him time to divorce his wife and introduce his family or not.
@cherry39,
Quote:Can I wait him and give him time to divorce his wife and introduce his family or not.
I don't know the answer to that because you are the only one who really knows what's in your own heart. And I do not know the man you speak of. I only know what you have said about him. So you are the only one who can make a decision.
@Glennn,
Yes.I really tired relationship with him.I also love him.But he doesnt want to support me money if I continue with him .He wants to be independent myself. Sometimes I trust him but he always hiding me . Can I talk and discuss with his wife or not?So that I will know all truth situation and background.
@cherry39,
Ask him if he would mind if you talk with his wife. If he tells you he doesn't want you to do that, then tell him he has one month to tell her about you.
@Glennn,
He doesnt want to be talk his wife. He told me he will bring his house and sex with me infront of his wife.Just say only.He always changed timing and day by day can bring me his house .I told him target (give time) for last chance to bring me his house and leave his wife.I want to talk his wife directly without his permission. If I tell him he doesnt want to be talk his wife.
I think that talking with his wife will definitely resolve this issue you have with him.
@Glennn,
Now I have confused and tried with him relationship. I stop contact with him and forget him . I try to get new life myself.
@cherry39,
Well at least this way you will remain healthy.
@cherry39,
Quote:He said he will divorce his wife .
Do you believe this?
Or do you think this is a lie?
@cherry39,
Quote:He so addict for sex only.He always approach me sex only.
Just maybe this is all he ever wanted you for, and nothing else.
@cherry39,
Quote:Can I talk and discuss with his wife or not?So that I will know all truth situation and background.
Maybe he doesn't want you to know the truth.
@Real Music,
Yes.Thats'why I called his wife directly and asked her about personal background and situation. So that I can know.Can I call her or not?