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Fri 31 May, 2019 01:54 pm
How do I support my male friend on the upcoming third anniversary of his wife’s passing? Say nothing, send a brief note or suggest a low key activity together?
@Lucydog14,
Just give him a call on the phone. He'll take it from there.
@Sturgis,
And say what? He lives next door, I usually talk to him face to face. Would suggesting doing something together be disrespectful?
I always appreciated a call on that day, with the caller just saying they were thinking about how I was doing.
Give him a call. He will take it from there.
Maybe you could suggest lunch or something some day later in the conversation. See how he responds.
@PUNKEY,
Thanks so much for your advice. I will consider doing that.
@Lucydog14,
People are different. I'd sooner people left well alone, I didn't want to be constantly reminded of what had happened.
The kids and I remembered her on our own, in our own way.