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Lack of sexual desire

 
 
Reply Sat 11 May, 2019 09:52 pm
I'm a 26 year old female. I've been masturbating for a long time and thinking of girl on girl turns me on. I'm open to dating women I just never have. I've always been in relationships with men. I'm aroused and turned on by men especially during foreplay but once we start having sex it feels good but I'm just not fully into it. I dont feel as aroused and I have never climaxed not even while rubbing my clitoris. The sex I had was always about the man but now I am seeing someone I really like and he turns me on but once we start having sex I'm just not sexually aroused. I dont know what I want or what I'm into. I do when I'm pleasing myself and I'm into women then. am I going to be unable to continue sex with men, is it possible I may be only into women. I would be totally fine with that. but I really like this guy and would like to be able to discover what would turn me on while having sex with him.
 
jespah
 
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Reply Sun 12 May, 2019 06:44 am
@aspiebutterfly11,
Lots of women have problems having an orgasm during intercourse so recognize that may be a part of it.

So talk to your fellow. Tell him you need some help. You might do better with different positions, oral, or toys. Or you might just do well during foreplay and not intercourse. It's not the end of the world and it doesn't have to be the end of your relationship, either.

But the first thing to do is have a conversation.
aspiebutterfly11
 
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Reply Sun 12 May, 2019 09:04 am
@jespah,
Thank you very much!
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