Changing fiancée

Hope you haven't set a date.

A changing fiancée needs a changing fiancé who'll fight fire with fire and flee before a major change to his and his fiancée's finances.

Sounds like one of those types who dont know how to handle the infatuation burn out stage.

They are chained to their immediate 'feelings' and refuse to see past that.

RUN and dont look back!

In fact I have dear friend, but I can postpone to a later date.

I am not that kind of people my friend.
I don't want to give up easily because running away is the easiest thing to do
Thanks for your honesty

If she hasn't called after 10 days I don't think there's much point in worrying about setting another date.

You have got a point dear friend, and that is what I am saying.
Setting a date is not a problem.
But what is wrong with her is the problem

We're not here to decide why she went cool, and it's immaterial anyway. Your first question to her -- and push for an in-person meeting, no text, you're her fiance and you deserve that much -- should not be about why she's withdrawing. It should be about whether she wants the relationship to continue at all. If she does, then you two need to get on the same page when it comes to communications.

What jespah here says --- and have you asked her? Have you sat down and talked with her and asked the pointed questions? Did something change? Why are you more distant - It seems you asked her but from what you say your answer is - I am tired or busy --- it doesn't seem you asked her the pointed questions or pushed for more. Have you asked why are you so busy and tired? Is this relationship important enough for you to talk further? So many deeper questions you can ask.

If she continues to refuse to delve deeper - be honest - say you are questioning this engagement - maybe she is afraid to be honest with you and to break things off - you will never know if you don't push to get a real answer.

Thanks for your reply dear friend,
In fact I asked her so many times what's wrong with her, but all she says is that she is busy with housework eventually as my fiancée does not work, or that she is tired because of housework too. Poor excuses indeed.
Finally I asked her " Do you still want to be with me?"
and she answered " Of course! if I did not you will be the first to know"
But I am still confused

Call the marriage off or see a relationship counselor alongside your fiancée.

Dear friend,
I asked her so many times. And when I try to push, all I get is tears and tears.
I really want to fix this relationship because I really do love her. But if she is gonna treat me this way or if she does not love me back, then I will simply leave her. All I want is to make the right decision without getting anybody hurt.

You have an answer in your own words:

Say - "I really do love you. I really want to fix this relationship. But if you are gonna to treat me this way or if you do not love me back, I will simply leave. I do not want to hurt you but if you treat me this way and you do not love me back it is best for both of us if we simply leave."

Granted I added a bit there at the end - but all you need to do is pretty much say what you have said here. It is firm but kind and caring, which is what you need to do. I know it seems simple in words in black and white and it won't be as simple when you are talking to her - but I think it does show you care that it would be so hard to say in a firm and direct way. Unfortunately it looks like that would be the only way to know - and you certainly do not want to get married if you are unsure.

The one other option - is maybe ask her for a break. Say lets take a month off from each and then see if we really want to be together forever.

She might as well said she was busy washing her hair.

it seems fairly clear that you can't fix what is wrong as she won't let you in. There is something wrong as she is not participating in the relationship. Her non-decision or non-action is a decision that forces your hand.

Thanks for the reply dear friend.
I totally agree with you and I will do it

You may be right dear friend, but it is worthy a try.

Have you tried talking to her family?

Perhaps life will be different for you, that i cannot know? But I have to tell you, in my life, i have faced moments where i wondered if it was time to run and i did not run.

Each and every time i stayed, i have lived to regret it, no exceptions!