@Uncertainty,
Young adults in their 20s and even thirties often come to the conclusion that they know far, far more than their parents. My advice would be:
1) avoid fights with her on this matter whenever possible
2) when you talk with her, keep things sunny and light
3) and yes, let her know that this is your life to lead as her life is her's to lead. Try to get this point across without negative emotions from yourself regardless of how she responds.
I think she'll have to grow out of this phase. In the meantime, just don't allow her to pull you into arguments. Good luck.