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Tue 29 Jan, 2019 05:00 pm
My boyfriend's ex has been wanting him to respond to her Facebook messages. I messaged her to ask why and her answer was because he helped raise her daughter. He informed me of this at the beginning of our relationship 2 years ago and that he couldn't see this child because his ex and her family wouldn't allow it unless him and his ex were together, he also confided how she wasn't close to his biological children and got jealous anytime he did anything with just them. She isn't raising this child, her mother is. So how do I let her know that after 2 years she needs to let things be and move on?
@HorseLady,
How is that your call to make?
@neptuneblue,
It's not. I love children and didn't want this to be like this at all without sounding cruel. She and others from her family are the ones who wouldnt allow him to see the child unless he would go back to her. Her mother informs him on how the child is or if she needs anything but after 2 years his ex needs him concerning the child she don't raise?
@HorseLady,
What does he say about it?
@HorseLady,
HorseLady wrote: So how do I let her know that after 2 years she needs to let things be and move on?
you don't. you stay out of it. block her.