Not sure on what I should do

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Basically she is in a a toxic controlling and manipulative relationship with someone who is the father of her children however both of us connected just like that, so similar with likes and dislikes, the spark is there and we both have feelings for each other, but she won't have a bad word said against him. The problem is we were getting on like a house on fire then she said she needs to step back a bit because she is getting too attached to me. As much as I was disheartened by this I understood.
I spoke to her on the phone a few times, but she accidently called me in front of her bf and he flipped out. Now she is saying she will only speak to me publicly rather than privately. What do I do?

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@decadence,

Block her on social media and your phone, and find someone new.

If you care at all about her well-being, there is every possibility that too much contact with you could equal abuse for her, either physically or emotionally or verbally.

Unless she is ready to leave (and she's not, because she's defending him to you), then get out of this situation before you find yourself on the business end of that guy's fist or his gun, or she does.

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@decadence,

"we were getting on like a house on fire then she said she needs to step back a bit because she is getting too attached to me. "

That doesn't make sense. Rightfully, she should have seen you were a safe, loving haven away from her toxic relationship.

She's using you.

RUN - they both sound unstable.

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