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Sat 10 Nov, 2018 06:40 am
I will try to explain this the best I can I have never written anything like this so I don't even know how it's going to come out and sound. My wife was a master manipulator and a liar she would constantly comment about how she hates people that lies she can understand how people can cheat on each other 4 over 30 years I heard this. But to my amazement this woman was constantly screwing every guy she could she especially like the black men and constantly lying she would make home amateur video clips and post them over numerous websites would change faced software programs to hide her identity. This was a woman I thought that love me with all her hear.t I never would have guessed in a million years what she was doing. She screwed many of my close friends my daughters black boyfriend the list goes on and on it took me over 3 years to get to where I am today and to know the things that I know I'll probably like to talk to a professional about this but this is a very long story that goes on and on and on I could probably make a movie out of this is that unbelievable there's just so much to tell about this I don't even know where to start the acts that she has known as unspeakable she had everyone thinking I was delusional while she was doing all these things right under my nose knowing what it was doing to me I literally went through hell for 3 years I have no clue how long this has been going on has been going on for the whole thirty years we were together but I come to realize that my marriage was over 30 years was nothing but a Big Y if anyone's interested in hearing more this is a nightmare of a story and there was many people helping her cover this up and this may sound like I'm being delusional or paranoid this is 100% true
@Newandimproved,
The term is 'gaslighting'. Get proof and get a lawyer. Put your hurt aside for the moment. Just concentrate on ending your marriage and maintaining a relationship with your children if you have any, and if you want to stay on good terms with them (you don't have to).
Keep your eyes on the prize: ending your marriage.
@Newandimproved,
Jespah's advice is sound but it doesn't hurt to vent in an internet forum.
I have a relative who has a somewhat similar story. He married a woman suffering from bipolar disorder. Amazingly he stayed with her as she got treatment. Your wife may be evil and she may be mentally ill. Sometimes the two look the same.