2 year affair and he is cheating on me and his fiancée

He is not cheating on you.

This lying skunk is cheating on his fiancée with two separate women.

You've been putting up with his noncommittal, passive-aggressive using **** for two years???!!

He's a rat. You deserve better. Stop wasting your life on someone who has never loved you, and has used you for sex. I'm sorry, and I know, you're going to hate what I'm saying, block me, whatever.

You're still being used, whether you want to hear it or not.

Please go to therapy. Unburden yourself to an impartial professional and get tools to bolster your self-esteem, big time.

You have wasted two years of your life as this guy's doormat. Life is short, tick tock, and he would never have left his fiancée, anyway. And now he's tired of you, too. But he enjoys having guaranteed sex enough that he's putting up with you for just a smidge longer, until he can get affair partner #2 lined up just the way he wants.

Let her (and his fiancée) have him.

Oh, and one more thing?

Please get yourself tested for STDs. You've been with someone who has been with someone else whose sexual history is unknown to you. And he may very well have done this before, even several times. At least you are in a position to realize that, and to take medical precautions. His fiancée isn't. He could be giving her chlamydia for all you know.

Please get out before you invest any more time, emotion, and possible physical health in such a losing proposition.

A cheater cheating on his co- cheater. Who woulda thunk! ?

Don’t be confused any more. He has moved on.

Thanks, I know you are right. I fell in love with him and that’s my fault I let that happen. You say to yourself that your different, you can change them but it’s just not the case. I know he will try and contact me in a few weeks time but I have blocked him and need to stay that way. He was telling me he loved me (drunk) but he obviously doesn’t know the meaning of the word. I do genuinely feel awful for his fiancée and that’s also me to blame in that.
Thank you for your honest comments

where is the confusing part?

he cheats

he cheats on his fiancee with whoever he can - you are one of a group of 'other women'

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Does your relationship partner not deserve to be with a person who craves / loves him? cut the fellow loose so he can find someone who loves him truly/madly/deeply

I'm sorry. I just cannot get over the fact that a woman who is cheating on her partner is upset that the man she is cheating with, who is cheating on his fiancee, is also cheating on her with women other than his fiancee.

Sounds a bit like the pot calling the kettle black.