@Sturgis,
I decided to buy a new Amazon Echo (which before the below discounts was still cheaper and more functional than the older Tap I presently own)...
Amazon is allowing me $20 credit for sending in my old Tap plus an additional discount on the Echo. So both issues are solved.
When I get the Echo... like my Tap, I'll leave the Alexa automatic monitoring off because ... I don't need it always on. My bedroom where I'll use it ... is small enough that I don't need to bark commands at it to get what I need from it.