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Tue 9 Oct, 2018 10:00 pm
I saw this girl I used to work with at my former software company at the local grocery store tonight. I haven't seen her in about 6 months roughly. We always were polite to each other and I'd catch her staring from time to time and had nice conversations, nothing crazy but just typical colleague small talk. I always felt a different vibe around her and one that I was never able to ignore..even to this day. So we exchanged smiles as we passed each other and then it clicked to me who it was after I left that aisle. I tried to find her to say hello but she was gone. Is it too awkward for me to message her on Facebook (I never added her) or should I just leave this be?
@DeganX6,
Sure, send a note but keep it light. Then the balls in her court. If she doesn't respond, don't get depressed, not everyone checks their msgs all the time. It's likely that she will respond, just give it some time.