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Boy problems:( please help!

 
 
Reply Sat 6 Oct, 2018 12:52 pm
- Okay so, this is a long story so sorry. A year ago I started talking to this boy, we lived in the same city but went to different schools and we actually started becoming really good friends. Later on, he started liking me and he actually told me, but i never told him i liked him. So he started dating girls, and still said he liked me but i mean i get it he probably wanted someone to date because we haven’t met yet.

So after a while we started drifting away, and then a month ago i realized we were going to the same highschool (btw he’s like in gr.11 and i’m in gr.10). On his insta story (this was 2 weeks ago), he asked a question and it said “say something about me, or just say something “. So i followed my instinct and wrote “wish we could talk again”

And he responded to that saying, hmu. So I texted him, and we started talking and he’s actually so sweet. And he asked so you go to ___ school right? And I’m like yeah so he asked if we could hang and I said yeah.

I couldn’t, because I’ve been super busy at lunch also, but we would still text and he says one of the most nicest things to me, he would say I was beautiful and gorgeous and perfect, and he would be like ly. And **** like that.

But one day, we were just having a convo, and he was saying i saw u in the hallway but i was too shy to come to you and i’m like me too! So out of no where, he said “i wish i could find a girl who wouldn’t use me”. So I didn’t know what to say, so i said “don’t worry you will find her it’s going to take some time”. Then I started talking about my past crushes, and he said “awe” then he moved on saying “I remember when you put me the heck down when i liked you”, and then i was like yeahhh i liked you too then he said ****. And yeahh

After that it got really awkward, so I decided to text him the next day and it was still really really awkward. But then the day after he texted me and it was all good.

Idk, we talked more. But I realized I caught feelings for him again, and I think he likes another girl. But I’m so confused, because idk if he has feelings for me.

Yesterday at school, i was sitting on the bench talking to my friends, and i wasn’t really looking up but when i did , I saw him turn away because he saw me with my friends, and i think he wanted to say hi or just talk to me, And I tried to go after him but I couldn’t cause he went away and I couldn’t really find him.

It’s been 2 days since we have texted and i’m really down because I don’t want me and him to drift away again. I’m not sure if he’s gonna text me ever again, and i’m not gonna text him because i texted him the last time, i was the one who started the convo and it was a really short one. And I really want him to text me first.

Idk what to do, does he have feelings for me is ever gonna talk to me again or what Sad

help please Sad
 
ehBeth
 
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Reply Sat 6 Oct, 2018 02:09 pm
@unknown2345,
unknown2345 wrote:
i’m not gonna text him because i texted him the last time, i was the one who started the convo and it was a really short one. And I really want him to text me first.


text him

hey x - let's meet on xday at xtime and do x

make a concrete suggestion about when and where to meet and what to do

he can 1) ignore 2) say no 3) suggest an alternate 4) say yes

none of those things will kill you but you'll know you did all that you could

___

this dancing around each other is teen drama and no one really enjoys it

(and don't talk to your friends about it)
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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Sat 6 Oct, 2018 09:34 pm
At some point, one or both if you will have to actually begin a real, live conversation with the other one. Or this round and round will go on forever.

Next time you see him, give him something (a pen or book) and tell him to keep it for you for a day. Then get it from him the next day. That might be a convo starter.
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