Please help me with my relationship.

Who asked you what?

You were broken up with your bf. So whatever you did while broken up IS NONE OF HIS BUSINESS.

And see a counselor. You say you have an amazing bf (or he was - it's hard to keep straight without names or at least initials) but you're more unhappy recently. Talk to a counselor about why you're feeling unhappy and see if you can sort that out, independent of both men.

I know but it was the day after and I was even texting him after. I just feel terrible and when he asks me I look at him and say no. I don’t want to see a counselor I have tried, doesn’t work.

There are many counselors out there. Sometimes you need to find the right fit. You probably didn't discard the first pair of shoes that didn't fit you, declared footwear to not work for you and then went barefoot, yes? Same here.

As for him. The answer isn't no. That's an actual falsehood. The answer is, "We were broken up and we were both free to do as we pleased."

If that bothers him, then tough.

People who aren't dating don't have claims on each other. That's what "not dating" means.