Lost interest in him

If you wanted him to be the father of your child or children then you were likely not wrong.

If he was an otherwise good man who you felt connected to, then perhaps you were wrong.


Here's the deal: only you know if you felt there was a future with him or not and you, only you, can determine if the decision to end things with him was right or wrong.

I know I am not interested in settling down any way soon but I guess I did not want to continue with someone that could not have met my needs later

You do know there's a little thing out there called adoption, yes?

I do like I said I just totally lost interest in him. I guess I deep down want my own

You do know that a vasectomy is not an absolute bar to a man having children with some medical help as he still have the sperms.

So I would suggest having a talk with him over how he would feel about having children with you if your relationship would go that way.

I have heard that but has minimal chances and expensive

Once more the sperms are still there inside the man so the reversing of the tubes being cut have somewhere in the 50/50 odds range but just collecting the sperms directly from the man an then implanting it into the woman is a fairly sure thing from my understanding and not all that costly.

From my fast reading no more then the cost of a so so new car at the worst.

https://www.advancedfertility.com/