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Can this girl be pregnant from me?

 
 
Reply Thu 23 Aug, 2018 03:56 am
So basically here is the deal.
I met up with this girl a while ago, she is known for being “easy” if i may call it that. So i was fully aware of the fact that she has multiple sex partners at the same time, sometimes even making appiontments with guys every few days. It didnt bother me because i wasnt really serious with her in the first place, it was only sexual. Anyways. Last night i found out that she is pregnant, i had sex with her 5 times, in the last 10 days, the first time sex was 10 days ago, so i found out she was pregnant 9 days after our first encounter. Every time we had intercourse i Made sure i used a condom. So there was NEVER any penetration whatsoever without a condom. After i found out she got pregnant, i immidiatelly asked her if she had any unprotected sex with any other Guy, which she admitted to. She doesnt take any pills or whatever against pregnancy fyi. So basically she told me the chance of the pregnancy being caused by me is minimal, and that the other guys she had unprotected sex with are the ones she needs to talk to. U would say that the matter ends here for me and there wouldnt be anything to worry about, right? Well, the paraniode Guy that i am, i cant help but worry that somehow i got her preggerz. I imagine her sneaking into my bathroom grabbing the used condom and rubbing my seed inside her to inseminate herself. Yes. I told you, im paraniode. Whatever. So Guys and gals, would it be in anyway possible for her to sneaky inseminate herself. We had intercourse 5 times in the last 9 days before she found out she was pregnant, every time i used a condom, which didnt break or whatever. She did finish me off with a blowjob the first time we met up, that time it was without a condom, but im pretty sure she swallowed, would it be possible for her to hold it in her mouth and rub it in without me noticing? Gosh, you must really think ik crazy, but please consider to take this seriously because im going insane.
 
jespah
 
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Reply Thu 23 Aug, 2018 06:52 am
@ParanoidePatrick,
Chances are low (not absolutely 0%, which they would be if you did no more than give her a hearty handshake). Chances are a lot higher with one of the other guys. She probably doesn't have any motivation whatsoever to make you her baby daddy over anyone else.

See a doctor about what feels a lot like unreasonable anxiety from my vantage point.

Stop calling sexually liberated women "easy" when you're doing the exact same thing. What do you call men who are sexually liberated? I strongly suspect whatever it is, you either don't think about it enough to comment on it, or it's not an insult. Cut that sexist **** out, please.

And it's spelled paranoid.
najmelliw
 
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Reply Thu 23 Aug, 2018 07:14 am
@ParanoidePatrick,
First of, let me start by saying I find it rather stupid to get involved with an 'easy' girl for sex, if you are afraid you might wind up being a father. This seems to generate a lot of stress for you, which you could avoid if you just took care to only have sexual intercourse with a committed, monogamous partner who uses protection herself in addition to the condom. Also, it doesn't seem particularly nice to label the girl as 'easy' , when you yourself don't seem to have any issues with sleeping with her: that makes you 'easy' as well, I'd say.

Second, afaik, I don't think you are the father. The math doesn't add up. I assume she doesn't check on a daily basis whether she is pregnant or not, but she found out after she missed her period. That means her ovulation was at least two weeks prior, plus the time that has elapsed since she missed her period, probably also 3 or 4 days. That means you are almost certainly not the papa of this little baby.

But if you really want to be sure, take a paternity test.

And if you want to continue having sex with 'easy' girls, but are overly worried about pregnancy, have a vasectomy. That should take care of all your worries.
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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Thu 23 Aug, 2018 09:33 am
Sex by appointment?

Multiple partners?

Announces that she’s Pregnant 9 days after being with you? Not likely.

May I ask your ages?

She was playing with fire and got caught. You aren’t the only one with matches.

She might be looking for a ‘baby daddy.’
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ParanoidPatrick
 
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Reply Thu 23 Aug, 2018 09:45 am
Thanks for all your replies,

First off, i apologise for the term “easy girl”. Didnt think it through, if it makes it any better, i would consider myself as an “easy Guy” lol.

@PUNKEY

Sex by appiontment? Yes

Multiple partners? Yes

Ages? Im 26 and she is 22

Anyways it just feels like a weight of my shoulders for being able to share lol.

Thanks.
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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Thu 23 Aug, 2018 11:01 am
I’m glad you feel better. But please don’t leave the house until you have gotten some sex education information.


Google:
STDs; herpes, genital and oral
Pregnancy: how, fertility cycles, human gestation time
Prostitutes and Sexual addiction
Child Support and Visitation for Single Fathers
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maxdancona
 
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Reply Thu 23 Aug, 2018 12:04 pm
@jespah,
jespah wrote:


Stop calling sexually liberated women "easy" when you're doing the exact same thing. What do you call men who are sexually liberated? I strongly suspect whatever it is, you either don't think about it enough to comment on it, or it's not an insult. Cut that sexist **** out, please.

And it's spelled paranoid.


I have no problem with being called "easy".
CalamityJane
 
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Reply Thu 23 Aug, 2018 12:11 pm
@maxdancona,
I think that IS your problem! Very Happy
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maxdancona
 
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