Can’t make him understand that he’s not the right one...

Ok so I once met a guy I found cute and surprisingly he seemed attracted by me. I ended up at his house at the end of the day. We touched each other but it never went further. I had a whole questioning about why was I shy of talking about anything sexual with him, why I never felt these butterflies and increased heartbeat, etc. (see my other post).

The answer was because I think he’s just not the one for me. I only saw him once but he called me up many times since then. And I realized we have almost nothing in common, he seems to be judging really fast and has a lot of stereotypes about genders (like: this type of music is for girls only, if a boy listens to it then he’s gay // small dogs are for girls not for boys and huge dogs for boys // a boy shouldn’t have a cat because it doesn’t feel masculine enough (even though he has one), etc. Also he once said he doesn’t support lgbtq+ community and it offended me a bit (I’m straight but I have some lgbtq+ friends so)

I also feel like he was trying to change me (like saying I should shave my pubic hair, straighten my naturally curly hair, he laughed at me once because I am a fangirl (my 2 idols means a lot to me) and he said they don’t care about their fans but just about money. He said that I will ‘’understand when I get older’’ and also that my tastes are also ‘‘gonna change ‘’ (there I also think he wants me to change for him...).

Well he says that he really likes me emotionally and doesn’t want only sex but is that really true? Well if it is true for him it’s not for me... I sometimes am saying that I think we’re not made to be together and he’s saying ‘’don’t say that because of this only’’ but idk if I am the only one realizing that we’re really different and I think he doesn’t want to understand. How can I make him understand that I see him probably more like a friend?