Husband showing signs of misogyny

Hello,

So I am recently married. I'm in my mid 20's. My husband has been displaying some troubling behavior lately. Whenever we fight, after we make up, he withholds sex from me. I feel like he's trying to punish me. It will go for sometimes a week at a time. I feel like this is his way of trying to control me. He will act disinterested in me to get me to "behave". He was always very good with women. Even before we met, and I've seen him operate before me. I have looked at his phone, I don't think he's cheating, but I think he's controlling me. To hold out sex from a wife is like a reverse rape. Most men always want sex. I've been with plenty men before my husband, and they would do almost anything for sex. I think he does it to make me feel bad about myself or feel like I'm not sexy. Then I'm always ready to go when he wants it. He has been watching a lot of "red pill" things online recently. I've caught him making jokes about feminism, and I think he might even like Trump. I am just very frustrated. He also gets angry and yells at me when I have friends over and we drink in our garage. He says he works all the time and I don't help out. I have a job, I should be able to relax. He doesn't drink, that's not my fault. I should still be able to relax. I am tired of the manipulation.