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A guy has suddenly become distant. He told me that he has a different choice for a life partner and can only be casual with me.

Wen we met 2 months back He liked me a lot and said he thinks we shud know each other more. Everything was going great and he had even introduced me to his closest friends.
We went on many dates.

Then all of a sudden since 1 month he behaved distant and then told me that he doesn't see me as his future prospect.

Actually i had also behaved clingy and needy because i moved to a different city for work.
And he was clear since the beginning he doesn't want a relationship right now because he can't forget his recent break up.. but is interested to know me.

So can this be the reason he distanced himself from me by giving life partner as reason.
Or he was just fooling around.
Or have i scared him off?

Are there any chances he will returb if i give him space??

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[+5] - ehBeth - 04/17/2018[quote="sarah08"]Wen we met 2 months back He liked me a lot Then all of a sudden since 1 month [/quote] he dated you for a month, realized he wasn't that into you and tried to...

@sarah08,

I think he want's to break up with you.cause of his new relationship.

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@russellweems10,

He is single ..im sure

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Looks like you are not going to get more of an explanation from him.

If you admit that you were needy and clingy, that could be the reason he got turned off. He might not want to move any further in the relationship and ended it so abruptly.

Sorry - but moving on, wiser now - is the best thing you can do.

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@sarah08,

sarah08 wrote:

Wen we met 2 months back He liked me a lot

Then all of a sudden since 1 month

he dated you for a month, realized he wasn't that into you and tried to nicely break it off

leave him alone

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@ehBeth,

I agree with EhBeth.

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@sarah08,

Quote:

he was clear since the beginning he doesn't want a relationship right now because he can't forget his recent break up.. but is interested to know me.

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i had also behaved clingy and needy

I don't think he was fooling around, he gave you clear and precise directions as to where this relationship was going to sit, "for now".

8 weeks and you become clingy.

He is still in love with his ex.

Stop over thinking it, if someone says they are not after anything serious and you become clingy they are going to move on.

He is not the "only" guy in the world. If you are after a strong relationship, don't date someone that has baggage or is not interested in anything serious.

Then you won't ask these questions.

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@PUNKEY,

I know i should not have behaved this way ..i regret it ..it was unintentionally because i am not this kind of a girl..circumstances made me behave like this..i even apologized to him for this..
If this turned him off has he not judged me too early..
Do u think he can change his mind..if he sees the change in me..becasue as i said im not like this..

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@ehBeth,

I have left him alone ...giving him space..
Will he change his mind ..if he he sees the changes in me..
Is there a possibility?
Im not a needy person have never behaved this way before..i dont know what had happend to me at that moment..
I know no pleading will work..
I just want to make things like before..

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@FOUND SOUL,

Hiii
I know he was clear since the beginning but he atleast saw me as a potential partner..we had discussions on this..
But after i moved due to stress and other things i acted clingy unknowingly..i am not this kind of a girl..first time i must hv behaved this way..i regret it..
I know no sorry or pleading will work ..and i hv apologized to him.
I m not after a storng relationship ..even i want to go with the flow..but just because of my behavior it ended all of a sudden..
And if he has planned to move on from me y has he asked for casual?
Is there a possibility he could change the way he sees me now?
I just want things between him and me to be normal and like before..

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@sarah08,

sarah08 wrote:

I just want to make things like before..

Things are different now. You live in a different city now, the dating relationship didn't work out with this guy.

Focus on making the new city your home - meet new people - join clubs.

Look to the future, not the past. This guy is now part of your past.

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@ehBeth,

I dont want to give up on him because i dont want to loose him as i know he is a good person.
And i have not completely moved to the new city..i will be retrning back after few months..

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@PUNKEY,

U there?

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