I'll make it easier -- and a little less repetitive, since I've listed fave A2K'ers for a lot of reasons before, crush threads, who makes me laugh, etc. -- and just single out people who are probably new since the last one.
Women:
FreeDuck has a great mind, analytical and concise but also funny.
BorisKitten is quickly becoming a favorite, down-to-earth and compassionate.
shewolf, MMS, Bella and SuperJuly are all vibrant, distinctive personalities.
Men:
DrewDad rocks, love reading his stories about Ya-ya.
jp is a great combination, humor + smarts + artistic talents + one of the few men in the relationship forum (and gives good advice.)
Ummm... (does that make me lesbian if I list 3X as many women as men?
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Lots more I'm forgetting!!