18 years

Without repeating your horrible expression, yes, it does sound deeply deplorable. If I were your wife I wouldn't be coming home at all, to an attitude like that.


Try to grow some decency in your personality.

Seriously man, that is just wrong, on so many levels... ugh. If that is your general attitude towards your wife, I can understand why she feels no desire to get it on with you on the weekends.

As for the problem itself, talk it over with her. And for your own sake, stay away from swearwords or claims of ownership. Since this is about her meeting your needs, valid as they are, what are you willing to do for her in return? How about pampering her on a Saturday, so she can relax? Then she'll probably be more favorably inclined for sex Saturday night or something.

You get the gist: you want something from her, try to give her something in return. Don't demand it from her because she 'signed the dotted line' and she therefor 'belongs to you'. See if you're willing to do something for somebody if they approach you with a statement like that!

I'm willing to forgo your crudeness because it's not clear if you talked to her that way or you are just venting.

She has told you what the issue is, so you need to help her figure out how to de-stress and get refreshed. Ask nicely what you can do. It may be sleeping in later, with breakfast in bed.

I have seen other posts where the woman complains about the husband's work hours and many people suggest that he get another job where the family's needs are better met. Is this work schedule stressing out the other family members?

BTW - can you join her during her time away? She's not working 24 hours a day, so what does she do and where does she stay during the week?

Too many unanswered questions, here, except hearing that you are horny.