Are they grooming me?

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My bf and his friends often joke about having a threesome with me. I used to dislike anal sex. But my bf constantly grabs my
a** and always asks for anal and talks about it a lot. We've been together for
5 years and I've never had the desire for anal sex. Here lately I've actually wanted it and I've even started thinking about a threesome or even adding his other friend too. I don't know why I'm so turned on all of the sudden. Feels like I'm on viagra for women lol. His friends are always at our house and they always try to get me to drink a lot of alcohol despite me telling them I don't want to be too drunk. They've even gotten to the point where they make me drinks without me asking for one. Yesterday one of them snapchatted me and ask when him and my bf and this other guy could "take me upstairs for some fun." All of the sudden I'm into it and I don't know why. Are they like trying to get me be okay with all of this. Is this grooming behavior? They've flirted with me ever since me and my bf have been together.

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Probably - for a gang rape.

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@Othersideofparadise,

People who push you to drink against your consent do not have your best interests at heart.

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@PUNKEY,

I don't think they would rape me...I just wonder what their intentions are. And if they are grooming me...it's working.

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@Othersideofparadise,

Othersideofparadise wrote:

Are they like trying to get me be okay with all of this.

is there a reason you're not talking directly to your boyfriend about this?

after five years together you should be able to talk about anything including your new sexual interests/desires

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tell him you're interested but to lay off on the alcohol - it is super uncool for people to push alcohol on you - for one thing, it really turns down your sexual enjoyment - if you really want to do this, you want to enjoy it

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@ehBeth,

Honestly I don't know if they are serious or not. But their comments have got me thinking about it. I don't want to say "yes I want to do that" if he was just joking.

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@Othersideofparadise,

Talk to your boyfriend about this.

This is your sexual relationship.

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@ehBeth,

That's right, once you do it, then it can't be undone. Your relationship will change. no way to tell if it will be for the better or worse. Personally, 2 guys is fun and profitable. I'm not a fan of 3 guys at once.

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