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Fri 9 Feb, 2018 03:32 pm
There is a lady I know who I had a cold relationship with before.
Yesterday, she told me that she had a relationship with a guy for a year.
The guy told her that he is serious and he gonna marry her.
A few days took she figured out that the guy was a lier he took her money, and he had other gf.
However, she was crying on my shoulder and telling me she can't forget him. and she is thinking about him for 24 hours. She looks at his pictures every day, regretting the time she wasted.
Meanwhile, she will never back to him.
How should I act? What should I say?
Why do you feel that you need to help her get over her lover?
She sounds like she just wants to cry over his picture.
@PUNKEY,
Idk what should I do, she even texted me this morning and she told me that she wasn't able to sleep last night.
@JaWoody,
Breaking up hurts. But you are not a therapist.
You can tell her that you are sorry for her pain but there is nothing you can do.
Encourage her to go to counseling.
@PUNKEY,
PUNKEY wrote:Encourage her to go to counseling.
And don't give her any money.
@JaWoody,
She is using you. You have zero obligation to help her. You can't help her. You shouldn't try to help her.
I would tell her to stop bothering you.