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How can I help a woman who told me about her breakup to recover and forget?

 
 
JaWoody
 
Reply Fri 9 Feb, 2018 03:32 pm
There is a lady I know who I had a cold relationship with before.

Yesterday, she told me that she had a relationship with a guy for a year.

The guy told her that he is serious and he gonna marry her.

A few days took she figured out that the guy was a lier he took her money, and he had other gf.

However, she was crying on my shoulder and telling me she can't forget him. and she is thinking about him for 24 hours. She looks at his pictures every day, regretting the time she wasted.

Meanwhile, she will never back to him.

How should I act? What should I say?
 
PUNKEY
 
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Reply Fri 9 Feb, 2018 03:38 pm
Why do you feel that you need to help her get over her lover?

She sounds like she just wants to cry over his picture.
JaWoody
 
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Reply Fri 9 Feb, 2018 03:52 pm
@PUNKEY,
Idk what should I do, she even texted me this morning and she told me that she wasn't able to sleep last night.

PUNKEY
 
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Reply Fri 9 Feb, 2018 04:02 pm
@JaWoody,
Breaking up hurts. But you are not a therapist.

You can tell her that you are sorry for her pain but there is nothing you can do.

Encourage her to go to counseling.
centrox
 
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Reply Fri 9 Feb, 2018 05:50 pm
@PUNKEY,
PUNKEY wrote:
Encourage her to go to counseling.

And don't give her any money.
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maxdancona
 
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Reply Fri 9 Feb, 2018 07:10 pm
@JaWoody,
She is using you. You have zero obligation to help her. You can't help her. You shouldn't try to help her.

I would tell her to stop bothering you.
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