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Wed 7 Feb, 2018 03:41 am
Starting to wonder why people only want to have sex with me. I'm smart, I'm funny, I have a rewarding career and a great family. I am genuinely kind to everyone I meet and I am a great listener that gives honest advice. Oh not to mention I have a beautiful face, and some pretty fantastic tits. I am a accomplished cook, my elderly neighbors love me and they think I'm a riot! My housekeeping could use a little assistance, but I am working on it! I still consider myself overweight, but am feeling very sexy and confident in my new skin! I am still working on being a better me physically, but with 50lbs down I gotta say I am well on my way. I am great with children but have none of my own. So yes I think I associate love with sex, and there is a lot more to a relationship than that. But for the record the whole sex thing, I am a border line professional. I am up for almost anything, I want to be your fantasy and will say of do anything to get my partner off. It is my goal and mission in life to please other people before myself. I have made people work for it too, I have gone on several dates, had great conversations, have met friends and colleagues all before sealing the deal, and like some impossible conquest, as soon as they capture the flag they are one and done. Or at least done, until the hours of 11pm and 2am when a date is longer required. It's disrespectful, and as a woman who knows she deserves better than that I'm not interested, please tell me what I am doing wrong?
@lauramarie12784,
lauramarie12784 wrote:
... I am a border line professional. ...
You've answered your own question.
So long as you treat 'dates' as business transactions, as do your partners, then you won't get anything but business transactions.
Want to find someone to love you? Then get off the street corner or the Craigslist personals or Tinder or wherever you hook up with johns and start looking for male companionship the good old-fashioned way -- either by networking through friends or joining groups or clubs of interest to you or doing online dating but with the stipulation that you are looking for companionship and not just sex.
I am not saying it will be utterly perfect immediately, and always 100% successful, but you're fishing in the wrong pond.
How about taking sex off the menu?
Go celibate.
See if you can maintain a friendship without using sex as a way of keeping someone interested.
@lauramarie12784,
lauramarie12784 wrote:Starting to wonder why people only want to have sex with me.... I'm smart, I'm funny, ... I have a beautiful face
You describe yourself, chillingly, like a kind of product, and also you sound monstrously vain.
lauramarie12784 wrote:and some pretty fantastic tits.
Two, I hope! Or have you got a collection?
@jespah,
I have to say I have met people through work, through friends, I have joined a book club. I am not at the bar prowling for tail. This has seemed to be the end result. I don't treat dates as business transactions, I just try to establish a friendship before I jump into something. I don't think the pond is the problem, I am finding people don't seem to be interested in relationships. Any other suggestions of where to find someone interested in a relationship would be great! Thank you for your honest response.
@centrox,
I was a little frustrated when I wrote this post! Probably trying to pump myself up from another seeming hopeless situation. I see what you mean about the product description and it is a good point! I appreciate your response.
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