Why are girls so confusing to understand?

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A girl that knows I could possibly have interest in her, keeps says my name whenever we see each other in the hallway. She might try to tease me by saying my name in a weird way or acting friendly to me by saying hi. She is always with her close friends when she chooses to interact with me. We've known each other for a while now, but we haven't had a one on one conversation with one another. I also realized that she's playful when it comes to her guy friends too, but I'm not as close to her as they are. At the same time, she is very much aware of the old rumors that said I had a crush on her. I, of course, denied any of these rumors being true but refrained from saying I wasn't interested in her. For being someone as outgoing as she is, I was surprised to never hear a response on how she felt towards me. I'm unsure of where I should go from here, confess to her, move on, tell my friends how I feel, one way or another I want to know how she feels about me and why she keeps treating me this way too.

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[+5] - jespah - 12/29/2017When you put people on pedestals and don't really interact with them for more than one purpose (to see whether they like you), it's no wonder that they're confusing. When you lump over 3 billion...

@brianq,

When you put people on pedestals and don't really interact with them for more than one purpose (to see whether they like you), it's no wonder that they're confusing. When you lump over 3 billion people together based on a tiny sample, it's no wonder they're confusing.

Have a conversation with her. Not to get a confession out of her and for God's sake not to confess to her.

Confessions of feelings with no background to them are creepy. Full stop.

Never, ever do this.

Here are some alternatives.

"Hi, ___, did you get the homework?"

"Hi, ___, did you get everything you wanted for Christmas?"

"Hi, ___, that test was the worst! How do you think you did?"

"Hi, ___, you want to get a soda later?"

There ya go.

No deep confessions. No stalking. No guessing games as to who feels what. No trying to read the tea leaves. No listening to rumors (don't listen to rumors).

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@brianq,

brianq wrote:

I'm unsure of where I should go from here, confess to her, move on, tell my friends how I feel, one way or another I want to know how she feels about me and why she keeps treating me this way too.

you're kids - you're both confused - that is why she treats you the way she does - that's why you're all drama

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no confessions - beyond weird and creepy

no telling your friends - just rude and gossipy

either talk to her like a normal person as Jespah has suggested or move on

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keep friends out of this

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What do you do when she calls out your name?

Shout it back.

First mating calls.

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@jespah,

I appreciate your help and examples on how to communicate with her, but the only times I see her at school are in the hallways. I don't have her in any of my classes and more often than not, I only I get to see her when she passes me by walking to class. However, most of the time she is already with one of her friends, it would be awkward for me just to ask her a question out the blue in front of people I don't know. There is only one opportunity after science class that I get to see her alone, as well as also being a good time to have a long conversation with her. How should I go about interacting with her, using this time to my advantage?

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@brianq,

"Hey ladies, everybody get what they wanted for Christmas?"

"Hi! I'm Brian." As in, introduce yourself to her friends.

Not all conversations have to be one on one.

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OOooo . . . that babe who looks like Endora is SOOO hot. Do you think she likes me? Jespah, ask her if she likes me . . . then send me a PM, 'K?

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