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Is she interested or not

 
 
Shhhy
 
Reply Fri 22 Dec, 2017 03:00 am
Ok so there is this girl in my school, now we are not even friends but I really like her. Problem is i fucked up multiple times, I sent very dumb messages, my friends kept bringing her to me and it made me look like i have no balls to go and talk to her... But yesterday I went to her and just told her "I like you and I want to go on a coffee with you" to what she replied "I dont have the time for that" like 100 times, and then I sad "ok, nevermind" and walked away... But I am not sure if i should keep trying, some of my friends say I should some say I shouldn't. So I want to know if I should keep trying?
 
centrox
 
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Reply Fri 22 Dec, 2017 03:05 am
@Shhhy,
Shhhy wrote:
I went to her and just told her "I like you and I want to go on a coffee with you" to what she replied "I dont have the time for that" like 100 times

Shhhy wrote:
I want to know if I should keep trying?

Wow! This is really hard to figure out!
jespah
 
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Reply Fri 22 Dec, 2017 07:15 am
@centrox,
Ah, the mysteries of direct communication.

And people wonder why women don't speak up about all sorts of things. Nobody ******* listens to a word we say.
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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Fri 22 Dec, 2017 08:41 am
Stop talking to her. She said she didn't have time. That may or may not change.

The next step should be hers.

In the meantime, stop acting the fool.
centrox
 
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Reply Fri 22 Dec, 2017 08:50 am
@PUNKEY,
PUNKEY wrote:

Stop talking to her ... stop acting the fool.

These.
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Fri 22 Dec, 2017 10:27 am
@Shhhy,
Shhhy wrote:
my friends kept bringing her to me and it made me look like i have no balls to go and talk to her


makes your friends seem like absolute idiots as well

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if she might have ever been interested, the actions of you and your friends put a stop to that

listen to her - leave her alone

if you ever mature/grow up and she's interested, she'll let you know

leave her alone

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your whole post was like a huge list of do not do these things


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should you keep trying? not with this girl

grow up - learn from the stupid things you did - don't let your friends (those people aren't actually friends) get involved - do better with the next girl you like

learn to be a friend to girls you are interested in
centrox
 
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Reply Fri 22 Dec, 2017 12:45 pm
@ehBeth,
ehBeth wrote:

Shhhy wrote:
my friends kept bringing her to me and it made me look like i have no balls to go and talk to her


makes your friends seem like absolute idiots as well


Not only the friends. In about 5 years time, when they are aged 16, they may all know better.
ehBeth
 
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Reply Fri 22 Dec, 2017 12:54 pm
@centrox,
eleven year olds have coffee dates? hunh

definitely not a Canajun thing
centrox
 
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Reply Fri 22 Dec, 2017 01:08 pm
@ehBeth,
ehBeth wrote:
eleven year olds have coffee dates? hunh

I was going by the apparent mental age.
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Shhhy
 
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Reply Fri 22 Dec, 2017 05:14 pm
I donr really know anymore like she told literally everyone that I asked her out, then she kissed a dude like in front of me, then she acts like she doesnt want to hurt me but then later with her actions she does... So really I wish I didnt **** up with her but this was my first time I had enough balls to ask a girl out, however how do you suggest next time with a different girl we first become friends? Like it was difficult for me to even go and talk to her because I didnt know what to say.
jespah
 
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Reply Sat 23 Dec, 2017 06:07 am
@Shhhy,
Here's the secret of life.

Are you ready?

It's to talk to people. Old people, young people. Pretty people, ugly people. Male people, female people.

Talk. Make friends.

Don't just talk to women because you want to ask them out. Talk to them at other times, too, and it won't be quite so difficult to talk to the ones you do want to ask out.

And leave your friends and other go-betweens out of it. Talk directly to other people.
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