@1badcj8,
Facebook has over a billion users active every single month and less than 20,000 employees.
See:
https://www.statista.com/statistics/273563/number-of-facebook-employees/
You do the math; they can't provide personal attention to anyone except big-time folks like, say, Paul McCartney. I'm assuming you're not him although if you are, I'd like to ask you how you feel about Yoko Ono.
All kidding aside, I wonder if you've got spyware. Try checking for viruses and the like, and you might have to go back to an earlier restore point. I am suggesting this because, unless you are someone as famous as McCartney, your account shouldn't be of so much interest to, well, anyone.
So check your system before blaming Facebook and, yes, it could be something you're only seeing with reference to your Facebook account but that still doesn't mean it's Facebook's fault.