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Issues with women

 
 
Reply Sat 2 Dec, 2017 05:42 pm
Hi everyone...I'm an Indian guy who has recently moved to Australia. I'm 33 and I have never had a romance with any girl til now Indian or Aussie. Now that I'm here I'm more interested in dating an Aussie girl. The only girl who was interested in me all my life was a lebanese girl who was actually someone else's wife. Luckily for both of us nothing ever happened. But the point here is that I do not understand why 99.99% women don't like me romantically or sexually except for this lebanese girl. Before you bring up arranged marriage I want to let you know that I'm not interested in it. Even if I did get an arranged marriage it does not solve the underlying issue. My wife might end up saying" sorry I don't see you in that way. I was just forced to marry you. Now that we are here in Australia I would like to get a divorce and move on with my life". My family tells me I have everything to be happy....financially strong, a good job of my own, many places where I could stay and yet I end up spending days wallowing in self pity listening to Staind records because most girls just put me in the friend zone. I have met different girls in different situations like clubs or bars or even outdoors. I approach girls once or twice a month. They say I'm a very nice guy but there is no attraction or they just don't see me in that way or that they have a boyfriend or they are married or some BS just to get rid of me. I don't have an Indian accent according to most people I meet..more like a casual/neutral accent. Most people I meet think I'm a cool guy and assume that I have had lots of girlfriends when the reality is I am a big zero in that department. I have always had the habit of making other people comfortable in all situations even if its at my own expense. My friends say this habit of mine has hurt me especially when it comes to women. My feelings of inadequacies after rejection ranges from my race to my height (5'8) and everything in between. I can't even pull the race card at this point because I'm seeing plenty of Indian guys with Aussie girls. What are your thoughts?
 
jespah
 
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Reply Sat 2 Dec, 2017 05:47 pm
@Naveen2016,
You're not fishing in the right ponds.

Bars and clubs are horrible ways to meet people. Instead, do things you enjoy (long as they aren't solitary pursuits). Take a class, volunteer, etc. You will meet people interested in the same things you are. And either there will be single women or there will be people who know single women.
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Reply Sat 2 Dec, 2017 06:19 pm
Become their friend before even considering romance. Then if you are interested in developing a relationship you ought to have many clues to read by then and you just may know if she will be receptive.
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