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Mon 27 Nov, 2017 05:18 pm
Newly married . Got disrespected by his family ,they called me names such as stupid and etc , his sister tortured me a lot , till I left the house . Got beat twice because he got pissed off . I am depressed a lot and I feel am being brought down to a level that doesn’t suit me or my family . My family is begging me to divorce and they are ready to do everything to make me happy . I am really lost and need advices plz ! If it was you , would u leave or stay ?! He stays with his parents , no income , no job , depressed all times , not taking any step forward , listen to his family , his mom interferes a lot in his life which annoys the **** outta me !!!
@marriageishard,
Of course I would leave.
Not every marriage is a happy or a fulfilling one, but yours doesn't seem to have any redeeming qualities whatsoever.
That little voice telling you to leave?
Listen to it.
@jespah,
I agree with Jespah absolutely.
@marriageishard,
marriageishard wrote: He stays with his parents , no income , no job ,
why in the world did you marry this person?
@jespah,
That little voice is telling me to leave and start my own life happily instead of being stressed all day long being lost !!
@ehBeth,
Because he made a promise to myself and my father that he will get a job and apartment and it’s been about 6 months now . Nothing
@jespah,
Now to prove that little voice ..while talking and he got pissed . he told me “ **** u”
So hello respect !
He got pissed because I was annoyed he went out instead of getting a job and doing something useful in life !! Hopeless
@marriageishard,
Quote: Got beat twice because he got pissed off
This alone is a reason to leave no questions asked even without all that other crap. You are in a no good situation. Leave now!
The fortunate thing is you seem to have a loving caring family listen to them - they are ready to help and want to!
@marriageishard,
marriageishard wrote:My family is begging me to divorce and they are ready to do everything to make me happy .
I guess it's time to get in touch with your family to let them know you're ready to accept their help with moving out/on.
@marriageishard,
marriageishard wrote:
Because he made a promise to myself and my father that he will get a job and apartment and it’s been about 6 months now . Nothing
it might have been a good idea to wait until those things happened before marriage
Look at the dynamics in his own family. That's your future because that's what he's used to.
Decide if you want to live like that.
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