Controversial theory on sexual interaction. What do you think?

It is widely believed in our culture,

That humans need connection.

That's a lie.

Humans need intactness.

Judging ourselves as right or wrong has produced a sense of inferiority or superiority (both are almost equally dysfunctional),

And the hope to connect with another persons superiority thereby compensating for our interiority (or vice versa),

Produces interpersonal attraction.

But there isn't an experience available to you which isn't you totally already.

So whatever you experience while being with another person,

Is distorted masturbation.

There only is masturbation.

But the so called interpersonal interaction, is masturbation presented as what it isn't,

While official masturbation is simply more honest.

It is highly speculated, that the only reason sexual areas of another human are stimulating to us (mentally, visually, and through touch perception) is,

Because we project the sexual energy of our own sexual areas psychologically,

But we can't sense anyone else's experience.

Can you smell a Rose on behalf of your friend?

Can you eat when they are hungry and satiate them?

You can't invade someone's brain and partake in the chemical action either.

What's being touched,

Is the very brain touching itself.

The surface only serves as interference, enabling the brain to provoke self stimulation.

So your friends delicious body, is actually the deliciousness that you are, but when presented as belonging to the friend,

A lifetime load of negativity in your mind,

Doesn't need to defend against the positive message (a pleasurable sensation equates,

Into a positive impression regarding your sense of self).

So the services we offer reach other is still very effective.

Because after you have experienced yourself under your friends brand name,

You contemplate on what just transpired.

And you realize that you have just loved yourself exclusively,

without noticing.

So this proves your beauty, your value, your power, your virtue.

But most of us go wrong in both directions.

Some remain in the impression, that their worthless self was just temporarily enriched by an external value (which is a source of endless depletion and pursuit of others, being their garbage).

While others are so effectively aware about the delusion of interpersonal love,

That they can't perform at all.

So they keep believing that they are worthless, without benefiting from sexuality to resolve this dreadful sense of extreme inferiority.

And often, refraining from acting on sexual urges altogether.

And sometimes, reacting on an interpersonal urge,

personally, while convincing yourself about the first point (that all sexual action in the universe is either masturbation, or masturbation distorted as an interpersonal relationship),

And at times, performing interpersonal while being very alert that you are effectively alone in your experience.

That all those appealing interactions, are merely actions within your own body explosively,

Will heal your soul very effectively.

By the way.

I recommend that you never fight your internal sexual behavior,

But rather befriend it.

Study it and get to know it very very well.

It will lead to astonishing discoveries and stunning joy in life.