Unless you are residing in India where the abbreviations in that article are standard for locating prospective brides for grooms and grooms for brides, you are still alone in your incessant behavior.
Occasionally abbreviating is fine. If you are placing an ad in the classified, by all means go for it; since, there is a charge for each additional line of text (in some publications per word or per letter). Other than that, it becomes nearly useless garble.
You would perhaps have increased viewing and responses to many of your posts if you just knuckled down and fully spelled the word in its entirety.