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husband lied about atm withdraw

 
 
Reply Sun 12 Nov, 2017 07:26 am
I noticed last week we were missing $20 from our savings, which we never bother, so I text my husband and he said he didnt. i called the bank and they said it was a debit card in my husbands name and it was an atm close to my husbands work...... He denied it and said well it must have been him but he didnt remember doing it and he cant find the atm reciept and cant remeber spending the money?????
 
maxdancona
 
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Reply Sun 12 Nov, 2017 07:42 am
@shelbo63,
If you guys are having arguments over $20... I suspect that you are having problems in your marriage that are deeper than money.

If you are fighting over savings, the obvious answer is for you two not to share bank accounts. Separate your money, he will be responsible for his money and you will be responsible for yours. Then there is no fighting over pocket change. There are lots of happy marriages that operate this way.

If you are having these fights more than once or twice per decade, you might want to think about marriage counseling.
centrox
 
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Reply Sun 12 Nov, 2017 07:58 am
@maxdancona,
maxdancona wrote:
If you guys are having arguments over $20... I suspect that you are having problems in your marriage that are deeper than money.

Right. Fifteen quid in my currency. Not worth mentioning unless we are on the poverty line. Recipe for happy marriage: separate bank accounts; split bills down the middle.

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jespah
 
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Reply Sun 12 Nov, 2017 10:32 am
Yep, I'm with the fellows. Arguments about $20 - unless you are barely getting by - are a symptom of far worse issues.
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centrox
 
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Reply Sun 12 Nov, 2017 10:57 am
Checking up with the bank? My bank (in Britain) would never reveal such information over the phone. And to call it "lying"? Maybe he was consulting a lawyer? About a divorce?

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