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Tue 7 Nov, 2017 06:34 am
So... like yeah, Im 16 and I'm a girl and i'm not sure if i'm ready for sex. Im in a relationship already and I have no problem with exposing my body to my boyfriend, I mean like, most people consider me hot and stuff cause like, I have a very slim and sleek stomach and these attractive boobs and the blond hair and the sexy physique and that stuff so im definently not ashamed. I've been in 2 relationships and in both when my boyfriend would try to have sex, I would give it a try but halfway through I always end up feeling uncomfortable when my boyfriend would touch my boobs and I would end up storming out of the room topless and find my boyfriends parents (who I thought were away) just staring at me half naked and putting my bra back on. I just feel uncomfortable when my boyfriend undresses me and I, him and I feel really weird when I see my boyfriend naked although my boyfriend doesnt seem to notice were both naked and he's massaging my boobs. My boyfriend is always trying to have sex with me, (He is one year older) and my boyfriend is constantly provoking me to have sex and I just don't feel like I am ready for sex and I don't think that my boyfriend is taking the precautions necessary for safe sex. My parents don't know that I have tried sex 2 times before, cuz theyll freak out.
@Burritodawg,
If you don't feel ready for sex, don't do it. People mature at different rates and you just are not ready for sex, Im 17 and i'm similar to your physical description of yourself, I am ready and I have sex sometimes with my boyfriend, but when it gets to far, I make sure that it ends. I've never had a problem with sex though, I did it when I was 14 once and every year after. I don't really get bothered if it gets dirty because honestly, I kind of like it. It feels so good when my boyfriend massages my boobs, but back to the topic, sex is a private thing so you don't have to share it with your parents but if you are being affected in a negative way somehow, they should know.
@Burritodawg,
If you don't want to have sex, don't have sex.
I might add you might want to think about what it means when someone continually pressures you to do something you don't want to do.
You can stop putting yourself in situations where you feel trapped.
Stay out of the bedroom with him.
You clearly are not comfortable about all this. Listen to your own feelings. Don't be used by any guy.
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