@305inthehouse,
You're being overly clingy.
Send your reminder. Short, sweet, and light. Nothing scolding or parent-like. In fact, don't couch it like a reminder at all (personally, I would hate it if I was being constantly reminded of stuff. I'm a grownup with a brain and I know how to set a calendar reminder). Instead, something like -
"Looking forward to seeing you at the game tomorrow."
Nothing more.
That's her reminder. If she bails, then I would really think long and hard about her, seeing as this is more than just 'hanging out' as bailing means she has cost you money and time. It's not just failing to hang out; it's leaving you holding the bag of a useless ticket.
And also, if she doesn't show, then give her 48 hours to say something. Don't ask her to say anything. Don't push, don't say, "I was waiting for you." or the like.
Anyone with half a brain will be well aware of that.
If the 48 hours elapses and you hear nothing about her not showing, then consider it done and dusted and do your best to accept being ghosted (which is a horribly cowardly thing to do, I might add).
Or maybe it'll all turn out okay and she really is just busy.
Give her enough rope. If she doesn't hang herself, then awesome. And if she does, then you'll be abundantly aware of where you stand.