In a recent OP a very Loopy Frank describes her experience with his Better Half after admitting her contact with another fella.
https://able2know.org/topic/422323-1
Well,' I mused, 'I hope he survives,' but then after a while I 'mem' my BH Enerval's comment when I revealed I had been comm'in with an older gal @ 90. I had supposed it was okay 'cause how coud there possibly be an implication
But then BH reminded me I was goin' on 87